trust

• reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence.
• confident expectation of something; hope.
• confidence in the certainty of future payment for property or goods received; credit: to sell merchandise on trust.
• a person on whom or thing on which one relies: God is my trust.
• the condition of one to whom something has been entrusted.
• the obligation or responsibility imposed on a person in whom confidence or authority is placed: a position of trust.
• charge, custody, or care: to leave valuables in someone's trust
• something committed or entrusted to one's care for use or safekeeping, as an office, duty, or the like; responsibility; charge.

those bold ones,

they link to trust don't they.

when you started to trust someone,

you started hoping that they might not hurt you or do something you won't and don't like.

what if it turn the other way around?

what if the person betray you,

would you still give them your trust?

would you still trust them?

If someone had done something that humiliates you so so much,

would you still give them your trust?

would you still trust them?

what if that person changes himself or herself,

would you still give them your trust?

would you still trust them?

but have you thought of that it might be your fault?

maybe its your fault it happened the first place.

you!

you have never lend them your trust.

you!

you have never let them prove themselves that they can do it.

you!

you shackle them.

it is you who started it.

and it is them who did it.

pity.